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Southampton councilwoman accuses supervisor of trying to 'control' her

Publication: The Southampton Press
By Jessica DiNapoli   Jan 21, 2010 3:18 PM

Southampton Town Councilwoman Nancy Graboski accused Supervisor Anna Throne-Holst of trying to control her at the Town Board work session Thursday morning, while they were discussing who to appoint to different financial committees.

Ms. Graboski is pushing for the Town Board to reappoint the current members of the Budget and Finance Committee, which was created last year by former Town Supervisor Linda Kabot. Ms. Throne-Holst would like to see the committee abolished, and possibly re-created with a more specific mission and function.

During the heated discussion, Ms. Throne-Holst said that Ms. Graboski should reach out to her more, and also said that she wanted to interview different, new people for the Budget and Finance Committee. But Ms. Graboski grew frustrated, explaining that the town’s financial crisis is the board’s number-one priority.

“Do not try to argue with me and do not try to control me,” Ms. Graboski said. “Someone is controlling the gate for resolutions I want to get on the docket.”

Ms. Throne-Holst remained quiet and looked down at the table during most of the tiff. She urged Ms. Graboski to speak to her after the work session.

“I’m not sure of the source of your ire,” Ms. Throne-Holst said.

Ms. Graboski countered back: “There’s a control issue here.”

During the argument, councilmen Jim Malone and Chris Nuzzi, remained quiet. However, earlier in the meeting Mr. Malone said he was in favor of waiting to appoint people to the Budget and Finance Committee, supporting Ms. Throne-Holst’s approach to the advisory group.

Before Ms. Graboski broached the issue of control in Town Hall, she said the fiscal crisis discovered last year still needs tending to and replacing the committee members would be foolish, as the current members have already acquired a vast working knowledge of the deficits and faulty accounting practices that led to the crisis.

“There’s an urgency to this because of the fiscal crisis we’re trying to get out of,” Ms. Graboski said. “It’s very important to do our due diligence.”

Last year, the town discovered that there was a deficit in the capital budget that totaled nearly $19 million. Since then, that figure has changed several times as the town comptroller’s office has determined how much money was actually spent.

“Things are languishing already,” said Ms. Graboski, adding that the comptroller formerly gave the board weekly updates on the financial crisis.

Ms. Throne-Holst strongly disagreed, stating that “nothing is lagging in the comptroller’s office” and that staff there is working around the clock.

She added that it is not fair for Ms. Graboski to judge the performance of the comptroller’s office because the councilwoman has spent seven days in Florida since the new year began.

Ms. Graboski countered back that she has never been “out of touch” and spends hours each day on the computer researching and drafting legislation.

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The last line of the article is the problem with Town Hall. Stop feeling a need for "drafting legislation." They cannot manage the current laws, why create new ? It's OK... worst case scenerio is that our taxes will go up to pay for this mess....
By The Real World (163), southampton on Jan 21, 10 3:32 PM
Time for Ms. Graboski to go.
By peoplefirst (787), Southampton on Jan 21, 10 3:48 PM
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I am going to have to agree. Nancy must go!!!
By blbandit (15), Southampton on Jan 21, 10 4:01 PM
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By paulgabe1 (29), riverhead on Jan 21, 10 4:25 PM
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So -- it was Ms. Graboski who could not make the organizational meeting scheduled for Tuesday 1/5/10, and Ms. Throne-Holst knew this on 12/28/09 when she sent out the press release posted with another article?
By PBR (4365), Southampton on Jan 21, 10 4:55 PM
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As long as the Town Council persists in ignoring the 2,000 pound gorilla in the room wearing an STPD badge, what difference does any of this make?

We have learned a little about the STPD's absorbent capacity regarding tax dollars. We know that there was a $4.5M deficit in the police fund, (whatever that is), but don't know where that money went. We also know the MINIMUM salaries of police officers which were published on the Town website but have no idea how those numbers compare to their ...more
By highhatsize (2114), East Quogue on Jan 21, 10 4:58 PM
find another pony to ride
By fcmcmann (417), Hampton Bays on Jan 21, 10 5:12 PM
geeeeez enough already, develop some intestinal fortitude and speak at the town board meeting. Blanketing every story at 27east with your propaganda and anti-cop rhetoric only reaches a fraction of your audience and is quite annoying. I think your feelings are more personal than material.
By politcal pawn (81), Flanders on Jan 22, 10 12:13 AM
Really give it up. You pay maybe $200 a year for the police dept and they work all year.You pay Thousands of dollars to your school district and they only work 180 days. There not around nights, weekends, holidays or summers. At least you get security from the police dept I don't see much from the school districts.
By lifesaver (95), speonk on Jan 22, 10 8:31 AM
If the STPD goes to 12 hour tours then they will come to work only 155 times a year, actually even less when vacation and sick time is rolled in.
You are right around the school districts, they're just as bad, if not worse.
By diogenes (57), westhampton on Jan 22, 10 10:41 AM
I hereby release control of your orbital muscles.
By highhatsize (2114), East Quogue on Jan 22, 10 5:58 PM
blah blah blah blah...blah blah blah blah,...(insert big word here), blah blah blah....20 years blah blah blah.....gestapo blah blah blah blah....blah blah blah......Kabot frame job......blah blah blah.....
By Bayman3142 (55), Southampton on Jan 22, 10 9:05 PM
Stick to your guns, Ms. Graboski. and keep on sticking up for the rest of us - don't let the new kids push you around!

And shame on you, Malone. During the campaign, you spoke intelligently. Now you're acting just like a little puppet.
By SusieD (108), Southampton on Jan 21, 10 5:54 PM
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Let's accept the fact that things with the STPD are not going to change and move on. Change the tings we can.
By EastEnd68 (832), Westhampton on Jan 21, 10 7:23 PM
Cow-tow to the blue union? That's absurd! Are YOU one of the cops?
By Frank Wheeler (1267), Northampton on Jan 21, 10 9:21 PM
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we dont need a committe to help control less then 20% of the total town budjet. We need to find out who signed the deals 50 years ago for the
other 80% of the budject as mandated for pensions and benifits for teachers town, county, state employees, what company or business can after 20 years of work pay retired workers for 40 years more when it adds up 50,000 or more per retired worker for pension and benifits, we are doomed
By take our town back (10), southampton on Jan 21, 10 9:37 PM
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and to make it worse. they reappoint a person for planning dept. that cant read a plan or a code book in a paid position as a planner. thats a joke the only thing She did was cause 200 town lawsuits and made the lawyers rich ( 10 years for a site plan approval) while taking the local business and local people out of the process and causing us to sell to big out of town companies becuase we know we cant afford to go infront of her. Watch a meeting with her if im wrong ill take her job
By take our town back (10), southampton on Jan 21, 10 9:55 PM
CatFight LOL !
By PrivateerMatt (390), Weesuck Creek , EQ on Jan 21, 10 10:15 PM
Who is legally in control here?....This is crazy considering all the financial problems we have in Southampton Town...Is anyone in charge? Or are they just going to point fingers....
By pmofo (37), East Quogue on Jan 22, 10 12:53 AM
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If two guys were doing this it would be power play- if it is two women it is cat fight. That says something about the writers of these comments.
Do we care who caused the mess? It is done- now get on and improve things so those of us on a fixed income do not have to sell up and move out......
By consciencepoint (16), Southampton on Jan 22, 10 7:08 AM
You are spot on with your observation.
By peoplefirst (787), Southampton on Jan 22, 10 9:57 AM
Out with the old and in with the new. A few new eyes on the problem are more likely to expose any abnormal transactions, while the existing eyes are more likely to covering up.
By kpjc (146), east quogue on Jan 22, 10 8:36 AM
27east.com: how about giving Ms. DiNapoli one of those cheap Flip video cameras for $100 [Ultracompact design; USB arm and built-in FlipShare software; TV output and connector cable; 60-minute recording time; 1.5" color LCD screen] and recording some of this and posting it on youtube.com and put the link along with the artilce--edit out the boring bits and leave this goodness for us voters to review. That would be some good cutting edge journalism.
By davidf (182), hampton bays on Jan 22, 10 8:53 AM
Ms Dinapoli: Please follow up on you article and report how the boardmember candidates stand on abolishing the committee. I'll be backing the candidate who promises to abolish the committee... and if this turns out to be a lie, then I will keep reminding people about it.
By deKooning (78), southampton on Jan 22, 10 10:59 AM
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By LovedHerTown (96), southampton on Jan 22, 10 12:52 PM
Ms. Graboski's rant seems a bit disingenuous considering that she is part of the "Controlling" Republican town board majority. Maybe Ms. Graboski is feeling the loosening of the reins of former Supervisor Kabot and is finally able to speak without fear of retribution and is just striking out at the nearest target unfairly.
By foodie (74), Remsenburg on Jan 22, 10 2:38 PM
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I'm quickly getting the feeling that things will not bode well for us residents in SH Town in 2010.
By Cindy5X5 (6), Sag Harbor on Jan 22, 10 3:08 PM
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To the new Town Board --

You work for us.

Perform in harmony please.

We are watching.
By PBR (4365), Southampton on Jan 22, 10 5:54 PM
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Kill every farm, remove every tree..the developer's motto Yet look at the record, most recently "dark sky" law.. Nancy G has fought to save this Town from becoming Patchogue as much as possible. When she's gone, who will?
By kelbas (29), Southampton on Jan 22, 10 11:58 PM
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NOw, that the town just finished buying a pice of land with the county of suffolk and the land is located on the cornor of Mitchell and scuttle hole road in
Bridgehampton,I think that the property was owned buy Nancy G & husband.
I think that see can now spend more time in Fla and spend some of that cash
and maybe think about staying there and not at a town board meeting acting
like you are a big baby!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Sorry Linda can't hold your hand anymore.
By taxpayer1 (31), Southampton on Jan 23, 10 11:43 PM
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By reg rep (397), Southampton on Jan 23, 10 1:45 PM
Please. Please! Look at the video and then maybe you'll want to adjust your comment "the camera does not lie". Images can be extracted to show ANYTHING you wish to "see" out of context.
By foodie (74), Remsenburg on Jan 23, 10 2:52 PM
out with the old in with the new
By banjack (45), port jeff on Jan 23, 10 4:46 PM
Nancy Nancy take it easy,you just got back from a nice vacation,no one is taking your right to express yourself,you just looked so animated and angry at the last meeting,you have two years to work it all out with madam supervisor,,and I be staying tuned in for part two,
By Etians rd (179), Southampton on Jan 23, 10 6:32 PM
Nancy,

No anger please.

We are watching.
By PBR (4365), Southampton on Jan 25, 10 7:15 PM
dear conscience point...........please stop being so politically correct in regards to the power-play verus cat-fight comments posted on this site......although i have no studies to back up my statement....i think it is safe to say that perhaps 90 percent or more of men and women would use the same statement to desbcribe what happened at that meeting........do we still have freedom of speech....and exactly what DOES it say about the guys who posted those statements..........
By paulgabe1 (29), riverhead on Jan 23, 10 7:33 PM
It is not about political correctness, it is about how our female politicians are treated differently than the men. "Cat-fight" has very clear and inappropriate connotations.
By dagdavid (645), southampton on Jan 24, 10 2:46 PM
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Looks like they are taking lessons for Westhampton Beach Board
ANOTHER JOKE OF THE HAMPTONS
By sjd (420), Westhampton Beach on Jan 23, 10 10:53 PM
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Ms. Graboski is talking out of both sides of her mouth! On January 12th she and her controlling team mates squelched resolutions for the docket!

She should go back to her silent mode since she cannnot control herself. What disgraceful behavior! Like most Republicans who think they are the only ones entitled to control and dominate Ms. Graboski obviously cannot deal with intelligent suggestions and recommendations , unless of course they come from the people whom she then ignores. Supervisor ...more
By Phaedrus (8), Southampton on Jan 24, 10 6:41 PM
dagdavid......please tell and explain to other readers and myself.....how you think that female politicians are treated differently than their male peers.........what are you thinking..........the press will uplift or destroy a male or female political person equally.....i think if anyone gets even a small break,just a tiny one it would be the female....seriously...what does cat-fight mean to you and what are the clear and inappropriate connotions associated with this term
By paulgabe1 (29), riverhead on Jan 24, 10 7:16 PM
I think what he said is pretty darn clear. If you don't get it, then it is not worth explaining.
By fcmcmann (417), Hampton Bays on Jan 25, 10 9:18 AM
This Board is not the ATH's Town Board, it is the Town Board of the voters of SH Town. Why would you say that Ms. Graboski showed disrespect when voicing her opinion? Everyone has a right to say what they want and how they feel.
In Ms. Graboski view it would not be good at this time to change the Finance Committee Board, these people are familiar with the town's finances, why change members in mid-stream. Ms. Graboski is also not in favor of changing the Comptroller in mid-stream either.
Anna ...more
By reg rep (397), Southampton on Jan 25, 10 9:15 AM
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ATH needs to be reminded that the Republicans hold the majority and when push comes to shove they are still in charge. She also needs to remember that this is not going to change-Republicans rule.
By EastEnd68 (832), Westhampton on Jan 25, 10 11:40 AM
fcmcmann..............hey we've found another elitist in town.....only you know and understand..........next topic already.............
By paulgabe1 (29), riverhead on Jan 25, 10 4:53 PM
To repeat to the Town Board:

You work for US.

Anger poisons.

We are watching.
By PBR (4365), Southampton on Jan 25, 10 7:17 PM
... the need to "be in charge" is the problem here. Forget all this party contol/ rule crap and attack the issues. At this level it stymies creative problem solving and allows candidates/officials to hide behind party "platforms" and not get anything constructive done. At the end of the day the election goes to the most popular candidate irrespective of party.

For me , the last straw will be if this guy gets bounced out of the restaurant at the golf course he has successfully run for twenty ...more
By William Rodney (232), southampton on Jan 26, 10 9:34 AM
Taxpayer1 is right on That was a real sweetheart deal The Graboski's got for the old homestead lot. I had so much fun reading about Madonna on that property. I guess Madonna and Mr. Graboski will have a lot in common to talk about. :)
By summertime (492), summerfield fl on Jan 26, 10 4:20 PM
Look at the record fools! NG is hated by the Brookhaven machine that put Charlene and Skippy in their positions. Look at where they are now and se who has protected them at $150G's of taxpayer $$$. You folks should be thanking her for all the years of service to the community, unlike the Brookhaven imports that will suck this Town dry, and turn 39 into Rt 112!!! NG aint no rubber stamper, and the outburst is nothing more than an elected representative stating her position, and displaying honest ...more
By kelbas (29), Southampton on Jan 26, 10 11:31 PM
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You have that a little backward: "Skippy" was already in place when he started importing appointees from Brookhaven.

Sure paid off for him, didn't it? Cushy OTB post to fill out his requirements for a pension!

By Frank Wheeler (1267), Northampton on Jan 27, 10 10:53 AM
OTB?
Are you just making things up as you go along?
By Terry (380), Southampton on Jan 27, 10 1:15 PM
Indeed! I have no idea where that came from -- perhaps because OTB has, traditionally been the appointment repository for hack politicos whose previous careers have been cut short by the voters.

I believe that "Skippy" is now the County Executive's head of Economic Development. Thanks for calling me on that.
By Frank Wheeler (1267), Northampton on Jan 28, 10 11:17 AM
Hey Frank,

Thanks for all of your insights and comments on the forums here. I hope that the editors do not delete the following comment as a personal attack, which it is not, but I could not resist.

"Re: OTB -- Get Wheeler, Frank!"

Have a good weekend.
By PBR (4365), Southampton on Jan 28, 10 8:54 PM
Go to the county payroll, check Skippy's deal with Levy. Then check brokhavens payroll, see the master money manipulator at work serving both parties so as to preserve her job. Both salaries are over 100Gs. Btw, Skippy, a TSH "conservative" candidate for supervisor, has replaced Ben Zwirn in Levy's gang of criminal democrats. The political mafia at work.
So, give credit to NG for surviving the big ugly!
By kelbas (29), Southampton on Jan 27, 10 8:54 PM
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you all still blaming Skip is sorta like Obama still blaming Bush. Now I know that the POTUS State of the Union renenergized "the base" but do you really think this hopey-changy thing is working out for you? So how long are you (Frank and others) going to keep going back instead of looking forward?
By DJII13 (155), Hampton Bays on Jan 28, 10 9:07 PM
You ignore on crucial element, sir, and that is that the evil that "Skippy" brought to Southampton Town lives on.

And on.

And on.
By Frank Wheeler (1267), Northampton on Jan 29, 10 12:14 AM
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