Thomas Gerard Bennett of East Quogue died at his home on September 15, 2017. He was 60.
Born on April 17, 1957, to Joseph and Irene Bennett in Southampton, “Weed” Bennett, as he was known by friends and family, was one of eight children raised in a close-knit Irish Catholic family. He was a beloved member of the Southampton community, survivors said, working as a carpenter for his father’s business starting at age 16. He continued this trade for more than 40 years and took great pride in his work.
It was in Southampton where he met Debbie, who would become his wife of 30 years. They moved to East Quogue, where they raised their two children, Emily and Molly.
He had many hobbies, including gardening, running 5K races, watching his favorite sports teams—the New York Mets, the New York Giants and NASCAR—and listening to the Grateful Dead. Survivors describe him as a gentle soul with a big heart who was endlessly proud of his family and their accomplishments.
Mr. Bennett is survived by his wife, Debbie Bennett; and two daughters, Emily and Molly Bennett. He is also survived by four sisters, Peggy Mezynieski and husband Sam of Southampton, Patricia Bennett of Hampton Bays, Sharon Catena and husband Gary of Hampton Bays, Mary Behringer of Southampton; two brothers, Joseph Bennett of Vermont, William Bennett and wife Danuta of Southampton; and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents; and a sister, Sheila Bennett-Duryea, of Hampton Bays.
Funeral arrangements were under the direction of the O’Connell-Rothwell Funeral Home in Southampton.