A Memorial With Heart

Editorial Board on Jul 4, 2023

As memorials go, the Edith Windsor Heart Project at Southampton Town Hall is imbued with emotion, and it will forever be a locus where love is celebrated both passively, in its lovely design, and actively, as the spot where couples will pledge their devotion in ceremonies open to all.

On the 10th anniversary of the U.S. Supreme Court ruling that paved the way for same-sex couples to be legally married in the United States — thanks to a lawsuit brought by the former part-time Southampton resident, a fixture on the local LGBTQ+ scene for years — the memorial was dedicated. It’s already been used for a wedding ceremony, and it will see so many more.

Supervisor Jay Schneiderman, working with Windsor’s widow, Judith Kasen-Windsor, created a perfect remembrance of Windsor’s impact on the world — and Schneiderman perfected the interlocking hearts design in his own workshop.

It looks back with gratitude, to Windsor and her dogged pursuit of a civil right, and forward, with the weddings it will host many years into the future. As memorials go, Mark Olivito, whose New Jersey company made the pavers, said it best: “I don’t think there’s anything like this in the world.”