Benjamin T. Sneed of Sag Harbor died of a heart attack on December 29. He was 54.
Born in New Rochelle on August 28, 1966, his family lived in New Rochelle and summered in the historically Black enclave of Sag Harbor. In 1995, he moved to live there year-round.
Mr. Sneed earned a degree from NYU and attended one year at New York Law School. A consummate salesman, his successful career culminated in 25 years selling ad space with the East Hampton Independent.
Passionate about many things, two of his favorite travel destinations were Madrid, Spain and London, England. He was treated like family each time he returned, about twice a year, his family said.
He had lifelong friends across continents, his family noted. His wife and friends from home would sometimes accompany him to share his love of food, culture and history.
Mr. Sneed was a Master Mason with the Sag Harbor Lodge. Last year, he was also awarded the prestigious Freedom of the City of London degree, making him one of only two African Americans sharing that honor with a famous actor.
He was passionate about photography and spoke several dialects of Spanish impeccably. He was often mistaken for a local when he traveled, even by Madrid’s taxi drivers. He also learned Mandarin Chinese.
Mr. Sneed loved life and envisioned growing old with his wife Claudia, continuing to travel and to devour all the knowledge and experiences he possibly could, his family said.
He is survived by his wife Claudia Sneed; and his sisters Adrienne JS Quinn and Alison Sneed.
A celebration of his life is to be held this coming spring.