Bette Ann Davis DiOrio Of Shelter Island Dies - 27 East
logo logo logo logo

News / Obituaries / Southampton Press / 1451700

Bette Ann Davis DiOrio Of Shelter Island Dies

icon 1 Photo

Photo by Harry DiOrio, call 917.685.5404 for usage Mia's graduation, Shelter Island HS, class of 2009.

author on Jul 16, 2018

Bette Ann Davis DiOrio of Shelter Island died at San Simeon by the Sound in Greenport on February 26, 2018. She was 88.

Her parents, Helen (Schauer) Davis and Harry Davis, predeceased her. She was also predeceased by her sister, Eleanor DeWitt of Accord; and her husband, Anthony DiOrio of Shelter Island.

Mrs. DiOrio was a public health nurse on both the North and South forks of Long Island, spending her last 10 years of work at the Suffolk County prenatal clinic in Southampton. She was passionate about providing prenatal services to low income women.

Her favorite pastimes were swimming at Menhaden Lane and Fresh Pond, exercising at the FIT center, feeding her birds, and driving her five-speed Dodge Neon Sport.

She enjoyed participating in her community as a member of the Shelter Island Red Cross. She also enjoyed reading the Sunday New York Times and the Shelter Island Reporter. She was a strong woman with a great sense of humor and a wonderful smile, survivors said.

Born in Manhattan, Mrs. DiOrio was raised in Kingston. She earned her nursing degree from St. Luke’s in New York, and a bachelor’s degree from Teachers College at Columbia University.

She met her husband, Tony, in the Bronx, while working as a public health nurse in Westchester County. She fell in love with his dancing and singing. She knew he would be a great father to their children. The family moved from the Bronx to Shelter Island in 1972.

Mrs. DiOrio is survived by her daughter, Mary DiOrio of Oregon; sons, Philip DiOrio (Linda) of Shelter Island, Harry DiOrio (Peg) of Shelter Island and New York City; and grandchildren, Jason DiOrio of Florida, Christopher DiOrio and Mia DiOrio of Shelter Island.

Burial will be held at Our Lady of the Isle Cemetery on July 24.

You May Also Like:

The Final Step

As Southampton Town considers aggressive action on sand mines, with plans to use amortization — a tool last used effectively to rid the town of nightclubs and bars the town considered nuisances — to finally end the practice, it’s important to cut through the rhetoric and state some facts. Sand mines serve a clear purpose and have economic value in a region where construction is a primary driver. But the town quite simply does not allow sand mining — that decision was made years ago, and what mines exist today are preexisting and nonconforming. Amortizing the properties is the last ... 11 Dec 2024 by Editorial Board

Keep Talking

Talk is not a solution, but solutions won’t be found without a great deal of interplay between the officials making the decisions and the public that will be affected by them. So The Express Sessions event last week in Sag Harbor, which focused on the village’s parking woes, was, along with future public hearings before the Village Board, necessary for there to be any traction on the subject. In fact, one clear message at Thursday’s session, delivered by those in attendance: Communication is absolutely crucial. And it has been one area where the village can improve. Restaurateur Jesse Matsuoka, who ... by Editorial Board

Great Buys

It’s not every day that an opportunity comes along to buy a castle. But that’s exactly where Southampton Town officials found themselves this week. Using $4 million in proceeds from the Community Preservation Fund, the Town Board agreed to buy the Casa Basso property in Westhampton — which contains a restaurant and a 120-year-old diminutive reproduction of a Spanish castle. The town plans to create a waterfront park on the newly preserved property. And not only did the town buy a castle, in a separate transaction it also agreed to buy 25 acres in East Quogue — 10 acres of ... by Editorial Board

Croquet Club Pleas to Town for New Home, but CPF Rules a Sticky Wicket

The Southampton Town Board has, for at least the time being, shelved a pitch by ... by Michael Wright

Expanded Retirement Benefits Legislation Could Help Address Shortages for Paid EMS Staff

New legislation introduced by State Senator Monica Martinez will soon give paid first responders in Suffolk County the option to retire after 25 years of service, an enticement that could help address staffing shortages and boost recruitment of paid EMS workers. Service districts will be able to elect to include certain EMS personnel in the state pension plan. Originally approved in 2023, the plan was able to move forward thanks to a companion bill outlining a clear mechanism for fire districts to opt in. Governor Kathy Hochul’s signing of the new measure now establishes that process. “Serving your community as ... by Cailin Riley

Southampton Town Will Pay $1 Million To Ensure Sag Harbor Hunting Preserve Remains

The Southampton Town Board will pay the new owner of the former Spring Farm game ... by Michael Wright

Battle Lines Form as Southampton Town Board Holds Hearing on Sand Mine Amortization Law

The battle lines were clearly drawn as the Southampton Town Board on Tuesday opened a ... by Stephen J. Kotz

Weekly Roundup: Bridgehampton, Southampton Boys Start Hot; Hampton Bays Girls Top Miller Place; Clarke Taylor Leading 'Canes

Bees Off to Solid Start In a rematch of last season’s Suffolk County Class D Championship, the Bridgehampton boys basketball team opened the season with a 52-30 victory at Smithtown Christian on Thursday, December 5. Jai Feaster led the Killer Bees’ offense with 24 points and Jaylin Harding scored 13 points in his Bridgehampton debut. On Monday, Bridgehampton had five different players score in double digits in its 61-57 home victory over Southold. Xavier Johnson’s 13 led the attack, and he also had five steals. Jaylin and Jordan Harding each scored 12 points and Feaster and Alex Davis each scored ... by Staff Writer

Bonac Wrestlers Boast Plenty of Varsity Experience This Season

The East Hampton/Pierson/Bridgehampton wrestling team turned the proverbial corner last winter, accomplishing a lot that ... by Drew Budd

Bonacker Boys Swimmers Already Boasting Best Times To Start the Season

These East Hampton/Pierson boys swimmers are already making a name for themselves. Despite a losing ... by Desirée Keegan