Edith Windsor, LGBT Rights Pioneer And Southampton Resident, Dies At 88 - 27 East

Edith Windsor, LGBT Rights Pioneer And Southampton Resident, Dies At 88

icon 2 Photos

author on Sep 12, 2017

Edith Windsor, a prominent LGBT rights activist and the sole plaintiff in a 2013 Supreme Court case that served as a landmark victory paving the way for same-sex marriage in the United States, died on Tuesday in Manhattan at age 88.

Her wife, Judith Kasen-Windsor, confirmed her death. The cause of death has not yet been specified. Ms. Windsor and Ms. Kasen-Windsor, a vice president of Wells Fargo Advisors, wed in 2016.

“I lost my beloved spouse, Edie, and the world lost a tiny but tough-as-nails fighter for freedom, justice and equality,” Ms. Kasen-Windsor said in a statement. “Edie was the light of my life. She will always be the light for the LGBT community, which she loved so much and which loved her right back.”

Ms. Windsor had deep ties to Long Island and, specifically, the East End. She began dating her first wife, Thea Spyer, a psychologist, in 1965, when they were living in Greenwich Village and often vacationed on the South Fork. They bought a home in 1968 in the Town of Southampton.

In 2007, Ms. Windsor, then 77, and Ms. Spyer, then 75, were residing in Southampton when they married in Toronto, where same-sex marriage was legal.

Ms. Spyer was suffering from multiple sclerosis at the time and died two years later. Ms. Windsor inherited her late spouse’s estate but was required to pay $363,000 in taxes—an amount that she would have been exempt from paying if she were married to a man.

Ms. Windsor challenged the law and went on to sue the Internal Revenue Service. After navigating the New York court system for years, her case made it to the U.S. Supreme Court in 2013, culminating in a 5-4 decision declaring that the federal Defense of Marriage Act—the legislation that defined marriage as only between one man and one woman—was unconstitutional.

“‘United States vs. Windsor’ is a tremendously important case in the American Civil Rights landscape,” Suzanne Goldberg, a professor at Columbia Law School and former senior staff attorney at Lambda Legal, the country’s first legal organization focused on achieving full equality for lesbian and gay people, told The Press in a July profile of Ms. Windsor. “When the court struck down the so-called Defense of Marriage Act, it opened the door to nationwide marriage equality for same-sex couples.

“Edie Windsor’s willingness to stand up and challenge the government’s discrimination against her has forever changed the path of LGBT rights in the United States,” she added.

That Supreme Court case set precedent for Obergefell v. Hodges, the 2015 decision that guaranteed the right to marry to same-sex couples in every state—a fact that brought great pride to Ms. Windsor.

“People stopped me on the street, people stopped me on the subway to say, ‘Thank you for what you’ve done—you’ve changed my life,’” Ms. Windsor said in July. “People say I’m an icon. I guess I am an icon, it turns out.”

“Representing Edie Windsor was and will always be the greatest honor of my life,” said Roberta Kaplan, the attorney who represented Ms. Windsor in the Supreme Court case. “She will go down in the history books as a true American hero. With Edie’s passing, I lost not only a treasured client, but a member of my family.”

In July, Ms. Windsor served as honorary chair, alongside her wife, of the annual Hamptons Tea Dance, an LGBT celebration originally produced by the Empire Pride Agenda, an organization that disbanded in 2015 when its mission to achieve marriage equality was fulfilled. Ms. Windsor served as a marriage ambassador for the organization, and she also belonged to the now-dissolved East End Gay Organization.

“Those who knew Edie will never forget her warmth, her kindness, her generosity of spirit, or her passion for helping others,” said LGBT Network President and CEO David Kilmnick. “By continuing to fight for those in need, and continuing the fight for full equality, we honor the life and the spirit of our friend Edie.”

Born Edith Schlain in Philadelphia on June 20, 1929, Ms. Windsor was the youngest of three children of James and Celia Schlain, Jewish immigrants from Russia whose candy store and house were quarantined and subsequently foreclosed when Edith and a brother contracted polio during the Great Depression. By all accounts of those who knew Ms. Windsor, she was as tough as her stature was small.

In 1950, Ms. Windsor, deciding not to live a lesbian life—of much greater taboo seven decades ago—married her brother’s friend, Saul Windsor. It was the same year that she received a bachelor’s degree from Temple University. Less than a year later, the pair divorced.

Ms. Windsor moved to New York in the mid-1950s and earned a master’s degree in applied mathematics from New York University. She became a computer programmer at IBM in 1958.

But she was wary to reveal her sexual orientation to co-workers and it was not until 1967, when Ms. Spyer proposed to Ms. Windsor, that she became publicly open.

“‘Edie, you lied to us!’” said Ms. Windsor, mimicking the reaction of her co-workers. “The dynamic changed. We began to come out.”

Citing a void in her life after the death of Ms. Spyer, Ms. Windsor “found love” again after meeting Ms. Kasen-Windsor at a 2015 Hamptons Tea Dance. The two, both LGBT activists, married in September 2016 and moved into Ms. Windsor’s Southampton home.

Politcians both national and local recognized Ms. Windsor’s influence in the short time since her death.

“America’s long journey toward equality has been guided by countless small acts of persistence, and fueled by the stubborn willingness of quiet heroes to speak out for what’s right,” former President Barack Obama said in a statement. “Few were as small in stature as Edie Windsor—and few made as big a difference to America.”

“I am heartbroken by the passing of my friend Edith Windsor,” New York Governor Andrew Cuomo said. “Edie was an iconic New Yorker who carried on the fight for equality and achieved a historic victory on the path to justice. She embodied the New York spirit, taking it upon herself to tear down barriers for others and ensure marriage equality was the law of the land.”

You May Also Like:

Invest in Teachers

It has come to my attention the possibility of losing great teachers at the end of the school year [“Teachers and Parents Speak Out About Elementary Position Cuts in Adopted Westhampton Beach Budget,” 27east.com, April 17]. Teachers like Miss Gomez and Mrs. Wagner play a crucial role in the education and success of students. Their dedication and support have made a significant impact on my child’s learning journey. It is essential to recognize the value that these teachers bring to the Westhampton Beach School District and the positive influence they have on the students. The decision to potentially let go ... 19 Apr 2024 by Staff Writer

Oceans of Hope Gala Set for May 3

The New York Marine Rescue Center will hold its annual Oceans of Hope Gala on Friday, May 3, from 6:30 to 9:30 p.m. at the Long Island Aquarium. This year’s honoree is John v.H. Halsey, president of the Peconic Land Trust. The New York Marine Rescue Center is a rescue and rehabilitation organization that promotes marine conservation. Its mission is to preserve and protect the marine environment through conservation efforts, including rescue, rehabilitation, education and research. All proceeds from the event will go toward the rescue and rehabilitation program. Visit nymarinerescue.org to purchase tickets, or call 631-369-9840 to donate or ... by Staff Writer

New Fundraising Initiative Launched by i-tri

The community-based program i-tri, which fosters self-respect, personal empowerment, self-confidence, positive body image and healthy lifestyle choices for middle school-aged girls, has announced “Help Her Cross the Finish Line,” a spring fundraising campaign that recently kicked off at the group’s recent Mentoring Day. The organization’s leaders say enrollment in i-tri this year across its 13 partner schools, from Mastic to Montauk, has increased by 20 percent, revealing a great need for and the efficacy of the organization. The cost for each young person to participate is approximately $3,000. The goal of the campaign is to raise funds to provide the ... by Staff Writer

John Calum Herdson of Southampton Dies April 5

John Calum Herdson of Southampton died on April 5 following a battle with glioblastoma. He ... by Staff Writer

VIEWPOINT: Life’s Quiet Wonders

By Roger Rosenblatt The solar eclipse, as advertised, was something to see, or partially to see, depending on where one stood. What is less observable yet just as remarkable is the way we apprehend such phenomena, the state of wonder we enter as we stand quasi-mesmerized before things we do not understand, and over which we have no control. Wonder. We feel it at an eclipse and, equally, though not in the same way, when something horrific happens, like the disaster at the bridge in Baltimore. Something occurs beyond rational comprehension. The sky darkens or the water blackens, and we ... by Roger Rosenblatt

Welker Honors Perez for Work With OLA

At the April 9 meeting of the Suffolk County Legislature, all 18 legislators celebrated their ... by Staff Writer

Call for Memories of ‘Uncle Fred’

The Water Mill Museum invites anyone who may have met, known or interacted with Fred Benedict (1860-1952) of Water Mill to please share their memories with the museum. “Uncle Fred” was a beloved member of the local community, and “Uncle Fred’s Workshop” is preserved at the Water Mill Museum, just as he left it 72 years ago. Stories are needed: A new collection and possibly an exhibition are being prepared. The museum welcomes stories, memories and photos. Email info@watermillmuseum.org with any stories and information. by Staff Writer

Animal Shelter To Host Open House

The Southampton Animal Shelter Foundation will hold an open house to mark National Adopt a Shelter Pet Day on Tuesday, April 30, from 2 to 6 p.m. The shelter is located at 102 Old Riverhead Road West in Hampton Bays. Visitors may meet the animals, get questions answers, learn about rabbits and participate in activities. For more information, call 631-728-7387 or visit southamptonanimalshelter.com. by Staff Writer

Two East End Students Honored by Suffolk Community College

Two East End residents have been honored by Suffolk County Community College for their academic achievements by three prestigious organizations that recognize academic achievement, excellence and leadership. They are among nine students who earned similar honors. “We take immense pride in the remarkable accomplishments of these outstanding students,” said Dr. Edward Bonahue, president of Suffolk County Community College. “These are students who are engaged in their home and college communities; they innovate, dream and achieve. Their dedication and exceptional efforts underscore their extraordinary potential.” Ali Jedlicka of East Quogue earned the following awards: PTK All-NYState, Coca-Cola Gold Scholar and a ... by Staff Writer

Workshop on Making Short Films on an iPhone at LTV

LTV Studios will host an iPhone Short Film Class with Mike Kilcoyne on Tuesday, May 14, and Thursday, May 16, from 6 to 8 p.m. The workshop is free and available to any beginners and enthusiasts ages 16 and older. An iPhone and laptop is necessary to attend. No prior experience is needed. The first day of the workshop will cover storytelling essentials, identifying a compelling subject, crafting a narrative structure, mapping out a shot list, and basics such as composition, lighting and audio tips. Editing will be the focus of the second part of the series. Registration is required ... by Staff Writer