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Phillip W. Lissenden of Aquebogue Dies August 17

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Phillip W. Lissenden

Phillip W. Lissenden of Aquebogue died in Riverhead on August 17. He was 76.

He was born on July 14, 1949, in Amityville. He lived a life marked by dedication to his community and an unwavering commitment to protecting others as a Suffolk County detective with the Major Crimes unit.

A proud veteran, he served honorably in the U.S. Army during the Vietnam War, embodying the values of courage and resilience. His time in service significantly shaped his character and instilled in him a profound sense of duty — a quality that he carried into his professional life as he worked tirelessly to ensure the safety and justice of those around him.

His life was one of service, love, and commitment, his family said, and his memory will forever be honored and cherished by those who knew and loved him.

He is survived by his daughter Kerry Lewendoski and her husband Paul; his son Michael Lissenden; his grandchildren, Erin, Zoe, and Jack Lewendoski; his brother Roger Lissenden and his wife Elaine; his sister Joyce Johnson. He was predeceased by his parents, Harrison and Muriel Lissenden.

Visitation will held at the Tuthill-Mangano Funeral Home in Riverhead on August 22, from 2-4 and 7-9 p.m.

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