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Robert Terry
Robert “Bob” Terry of Hampton bays died peacefully on July 12. He was 90.
He was born in Southampton on July 16, 1934, and lived his whole life in Hampton Bays, where he and his beloved wife, Mary, raised a large and happy family.
He believed in working hard and playing hard. From the age of 16, he worked in construction and commercial fishing, spending many years as a builder and as a bayman.
He was an avid outdoorsman and instilled that passion in his family. He knew and loved everything about Shinnecock Bay and some of his happiest moments were spent fishing, clamming, and duck hunting. If he could bring a kid (or 10) along to any of those adventures, that would make him even happier.
He was intentional throughout his life, particularly in choosing to be a devoted husband and father. For many years, the size of his enormous kitchen table was legendary, reflecting his lifelong view that there was always room for one more. His family was his pride and joy, but, being a kid at heart, he loved all children. He somehow always found time to coach teams, umpire Little League, be a Scout parent and attend most, if not all, of his kids’ sporting events. With limited resources, he made every Christmas special, and his children will cherish his dedication.
His family would like to thank East End Hospice and his caregivers for their support and compassion.
He was predeceased by his wife of 63 years, Mary, in February of 2019. He is survived by his children, Robert (Marsha), Joseph (Lisa), James (Kathy), Mary, Kathleen (Damien), Richard (Kerry), Frances (Chuck), Bridget (Ian), Eileen (Matt) and Sean; his grandchildren; great-grandchildren; his brothers, Jimmy and Jack; and many close friends.
In accordance with his wishes, there will not be a wake. His funeral Mass will be on what would have been his 91st birthday at 10 a.m. on Wednesday, July 16, at Sacred Hearts Church in Southampton, followed by interment at Sacred Hearts Cemetery.
Staff Writer on Jul 14, 2025