Robert Francis Wetter Of Southampton Dies February 5

icon 1 Photo
Robert Francis Wetter

Robert Francis Wetter

authorStaff Writer on Feb 14, 2022

Robert Francis Wetter of Southampton died at home surrounded by his family on February 5, following a battle with pancreatic cancer. He was 76.

Born to Frank and Isabell Wetter in 1945, Wetter was raised in Wantagh, where his father was the proprietor of the Wantagh Hotel. He graduated from Wantagh High School after graduating from parochial elementary school St. Frances de Chantal, and attending Uniondale’s preparatory seminary, St. Pius X. After a year at St. Ambrose College in Davenport, Iowa, Wetter enlisted in the U.S. Navy, where from 1965 to 1967 he served aboard the aircraft carriers Shangri La and the Forrestal.

Visiting a school friend in Westhampton Beach, he met and married Linda Romano, with whom he settled in Hampton Bays, and then North Sea, where they raised sons Christopher and Keith.

Most of his working career was spent with the local telephone company, beginning as an installer/repairman for AT&T and retiring as an engineer for Verizon.

Summers, Wetter and his family boated on the Peconic Bay, a body of water he loved and respected. Another great passion was automobiles, owning everything from Fords to MGs to BMWs. His appreciation of music spanned doo-wop, Motown and classic country. A grateful patriot, Wetter loudly broadcast from his stereo Ray Charles’s “America the Beautiful” every Fourth of July.

Six feet four inches tall, gentle, graceful and handsome as the day is long — without seeming to know it — Wetter had a quiet charisma that drew people to seek his friendship and counsel, according to his family.

He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Linda; sister, Kathleen Barineau, of Donalsonville, Georgia; his sons and six grandchildren, all of whom enjoyed his good-natured teasing.

He will be interred at Calverton National Cemetery at a private service. A Mass will be celebrated at the Basilica Parish of the Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary in Southampton on May 16 at 10:30 a.m., with a gathering to follow at a place to be determined.

You May Also Like:

Patricia C. Farrell of Sag Harbor Dies November 17

Patricia C. Farrell of Sag Harbor died on November 17 on Quioque. She was 92. A visitation will take place on Friday, November 21, from 3-7 p.m. at the Brockett Funeral Home in Southampton. A funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, November 22, at 10 a.m. at St. Andrew’s Catholic Church in Sag Harbor. Memorial donations to East End Hospice (eeh.org) and Sag Harbor Food Pantry (sagharborfoodpantry.org). A complete obituary will appear in a future edition of The Press. 18 Nov 2025 by Staff Writer

Early Momentum Fades as Bonac Football Drops County Semifinal to Sayville

Following his team’s 28-14 loss at Sayville in the Suffolk County Division III semifinal on ... by Drew Budd

Great Place To Be

I read with deep attention to detail the almost full-page story on the lack of parking during the busy summer months in Westhampton Beach [“Westhampton Beach Village Board Exploring Paid Parking Options,” 27east.com, November 10]. I did note, happily, that Mayor Ralph Urban hedged his bets a number of times in the article as to whether or not paid parking for Main Street spots, or spots in the lot behind the shops on the south side of Main Street, was really a solution. Mr. Mayor, it’s not. (The silliest idea floated was to consider the East Hampton plan, which is ... by Staff Writer

Define the Problem

To solve a problem, the critical step is defining it. What are the root causes of our immigration crisis? 1) Lack of economic opportunity, especially in Central and South America and Mexico, but all over the world, in reality. 2) Political unrest fueled by authoritarian regimes, or by religious fanaticism, or any combination thereof. 3) Destruction caused by repeated and worsening climate issues: floods, typhoons, hurricanes, fires, drought. 4) Global connection via internet to all corners of the world. The have-nots can see what others do have. 5) The illegal drug trade, closely related to item 1 but also just ... by Staff Writer

Sounds Familiar

Southampton Village has its own Donald Trump and Pam Bondi: Mayor Bill Manger and Village Attorney Eileen Powers. Manger, an aspiring Trump (and a former employee), and Powers, an aspiring Bondi, both relying on the same familiar trio of secrecy, spin and self-preservation. The latest example is the architectural review study, a report paid for with public grant money to evaluate which homes could face more onerous restrictions if included in a new historic district. Instead of sharing it, Manger and Powers locked it away like it’s the Epstein files. Note that Leon Black, a known Epstein associate who made ... by Staff Writer

Amazing Day

On behalf of the Village of Southampton Commission on Veterans Patriotic Events, I would like to express my sincere gratitude to the following individuals and groups who helped make this year’s Veterans Day celebration a success: Our veterans, volunteers and donors; Emily Paccasassi, for singing the national anthem; the Southampton High School Chorus and Band and James Tartaglia, its director; our guest speaker, Vietnam veteran nurse Joan Furey, who earned a Bronze Star for her service in Vietnam in 1968; the Southampton Village Police Department, EMTs, the Village Department of Public Works, and the fire department for their presence and ... 17 Nov 2025 by Staff Writer

Need To Adapt

I’m not typically keen on dueling Letters to the Editor, but in my best Inigo Montoya voice, my response to Highway Superintendent Charles McArdle is: “I did not say what you think I said” [“Oversight Failure,” Letters, November 13]. Let me try again by melding our two points of view: If governments at all levels continue to ignore necessary infrastructure maintenance while our planet continues to warm, expect the kinds of things that happened at Sunrise Highway to happen with more frequency. The combination of more intense storms with shoddy maintenance programs will cause more damage and impact on our ... by Staff Writer

WordHampton Picks Up Awards

WordHampton Wins Awards WordHampton Public Relations was recently the recipient of several MarCom awards acknowledging ... by Staff Writer

Peconic Bay Medical Center Earns Top Safety Award

Peconic Bay Medical Center Earns Top Safety Grade Peconic Bay Medical Center has earned an “A” Hospital Safety Grade from The Leapfrog Group for fall 2025, recognizing the hospital’s consistent excellence in patient safety. “This recognition affirms the exceptional work of our entire PBMC team in maintaining a culture of safety, compassion and clinical excellence,” said Amy Loeb, president of PBMC. “Every member of our staff, from physicians and nurses to support teams, plays a vital role in delivering care that our patients can trust. As our hospital continues to expand to meet the growing needs of the residents on ... by Staff Writer

Police Ask for Help Locating Missing Man Last Seen in Hampton Bays

Southampton Town Police are asking for the public’s help to locate a missing man last ... by Staff Writer