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Stephen Dalder Dies at 54

author on Nov 17, 2010

Stephen Dalder

Stephen Dalder of Westhampton Beach died on November 1 at St. Catherine of Siena Hospital in Smithtown. He was 54.

Mr. Dalder was born on August 14, 1956, in Oceanside. He was a graduate of Westhampton Beach High School and was the owner of the Sea Tow franchise of Shinnecock Bay and the Moriches.

He received a commendation from the U.S. Coast Guard for rescuing people out of the water after the TWA Flight 800 disaster.

He is survived by a daughter, Kelle Dalder of East Moriches; his mother, Ruth Dalder of Westhampton Beach; two brothers, Robert Dalder of Westhampton Beach and Jeffrey Dalder of Quiogue; and two sisters, Debra Ann Dalder of Long Beach and Kathryn Cooper of Aquebogue.

The family received visitors on November 3 at Follett & Werner Funeral Home in Westhampton Beach. Funeral services were held on November 4 at Westhampton Cemetery.

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